So you are about to board the
plane. You freeze; and however you try, your body does not cooperate.
No matter what you do, you cannot take those nasty plane crash
landings away from your mind. You feel your hear palpitating
as you sense the danger that will surely happen. Finally, you
decide not to fly. What you just experienced are symptoms of
aviataphobia, or fear of flying. Be assured that you
are not alone - fear of flying is experienced by people
worldwide.
Physiological symptoms commonly
reported by people with fear of flying are trembling,
muscle tension, difficulty breathing, palpitations, abdominal
and intestinal problems, sweating, nausea, and dryness of the
mouth. Meanwhile, psychological symptoms include memory problems,
persistent fantasies about bad things happening like the plane
crashing, and other negative thoughts and feelings that build
up anxiety.
This fear, though, no matter
how bad it looks to you right now, is highly treatable. You
can try doing it yourself first before consulting a psychologist
or an authority on overcoming fear of flying.
First thing you need to do is
identify the root, the real reason for your fear. You can ask
yourself, "What was happening in my life before I felt
this fear? Did I experience any major stress or life-changing
experience? Has anyone made me feel hurt or angry?" Also,
ask yourself if your fear of flying may just be an excuse
for you to avoid something. Maybe your fear is not the real
issue. Ask as many questions as you want that you think are
relevant to identifying the root of your fear.
Once you have identified your
reason, it will be easier for you to address your fear. If you
conclude that flying is not the issue, you can then face the
real issue.
However, if you cannot identify
the reason for your fear and you feel it is just getting worse,
then it is time to consult a psychologist. Pick a psychologist
you feel comfortable with to really help you overcome your fear
of flying.
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