It is vital to overcome
fear if you wish to attain any type of success
in life. It is not an easy task to get over your fears and subdue
the constantly gnawing seed of anxiety in your mind. To overcome
fear, you have to understand where it is coming from
and why you are hanging on to it. Most importantly, you need
to learn how to work to eliminate fear from
your life and allow yourself to experience new and different
things.
The dictionary defines fear as
"loss of courage" and as "a strong emotion felt
in anticipation of danger". It is fear that made our parents
constantly remind us to be careful when playing, to look both
ways before crossing the street, and not to talk to strangers
when we were children.
It's a perfectly sensible emotion,
because fear of losing a loved one is normal and understandable.
Some fears are also reasonable, such as fear of dangerous animals
and places.
But what if your fear paralyzes
you and prevents you from accomplishing the things you want
in life? That is the kind of fear you must overcome if you're
seeking to improve your situation.
First of all, you have to take
the time to sit down and make a list of all your fears in life.
Ask yourself why you are afraid of them and how you have been
dealing with these particular fears. Figure out what's more
important to you - avoiding your fears or overcoming them in
order to reach your goals. The answer should come to you easily
enough and that's a major step in helping you overcome
fear. Make a list of your biggest ambitions in life
and write down the things that prevented you from accomplishing
them as well.
You must also learn to stop listening to your inner critic.
Your inner critic is your voice of doubt and worry, the one
that always tells you why you can't do certain things. You may
have been living with it for years, but if you develop enough
strength and faith in yourself and your abilities, you will
be able to overcome fear by shutting out one
of the major things that keep you from your dreams.
Remember to let go of your preconceived notions. Ideas you have
formed about how impossible some things are and how imminent
failure can be can make you afraid of what will happen if you
pursue your passions. Thinking positively about the future is
a good way of ensuring that you overcome your fear
enough to take charge of your life.
One major way to overcome
fear is to really look it straight in the face. Giving
yourself an inspired push and taking baby steps towards your
goal will help you see that it is possible for you to succeed
and will help prove that your fears are unfounded, which should
give you enough courage to forge on.
Overcoming fear
is indeed a great challenge, one that is not readily taken up
by many. It is extremely vital for you to realize that your
fears hold you back and keep you from making the most out of
life. By learning how to be strong enough to overcome
fear, you are also freeing yourself from the cage it
has created for you and will set you on your way towards the
life you've always dreamed of living.